Monday, August 06, 2007

more fluff



i'm officially obsessed with diaper buying.






so i got all the goodies in the mail today that i ordered last week! what i'm still waiting on is this for caden:










and this for Elliot:





and I really wish I could get this for Elliot but I told Sky I would stop. So if anyone really wants to get Elliot something *wink wink* here is the link http://hyenacart.com/Mudshrimps/index.php?c=0&p=12492

Friday, August 03, 2007

fluff

so just wanted to share what i've been up to. my new "obsession"

i'm expecting three small Bumkins covers in garden print and Dr. Seuss one fish two fish print. ($20) http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1511676#post1511676

6 small white bummis covers ($40) http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1481465#post1481465

a lot of 3 sm bummis snaps, 2 small bummis snaps and 1 medium bummis velcro ($30) http://web.mac.com/katie_patterson/i...e/Diapers.html

1 bummis nb cover ($5) 1 small toile cover/AI2 and one dappi dinosaur cover both smalls (who says girls can't wear dinosaurs?) ($10) http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?t=195814

one cherry cover...oh so cute in small ($5) http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1533289#post1533289

not bad for such a little bit of money. almost everything was at least half off. i love diaperswappers....sigh...

Thursday, August 02, 2007

as i said, we made out way to the zoo yesterday. it was a lat minute trip kind of deal. nothing planned. left in time for caden to nap in the car. stopped at the first metro station in franconia-springfield and caden got to take his first ever subway ride

he was pretty excited about being on a train and kept going "choo choo" the train was above ground for a little bit being that we were coming from the 'burbs.

three trains later and we were there....or at least in the area. we were about a 1/3 of a mile from the zoo where we were greeted by this guy.

first it was off to see the air conditioned visitor center so sky could "take a break". caden was literally on the edge of his (stroller) seat. while waiting we got to see the panda's on the television. real time footage. not as good as the real thing but it passed the time... finally we got to see some animals. we came across the cheetahs first. you can see one in the background (right above the black rail) taking a break from the sweltering heat. you would think cheetahs would be used to it. i hear africa is pretty hot this time of year...




next it was on to the emu. caden loved this thing. he was disappointed because just around the corner from here should have been the zebras...but to all of our dismay, they were MIA.

inside to see the pandas. where caden could barely contain himself.


he kept crawling up on the railing trying to catch a better view.


then there was the bald eagle.

the hippos and elephants...the free range tamarine monkeys. there were lots of warning signs to hide your food. these guys had free range of the park. this is the mama and her 2 month old babies.

the prairie dogs were next. then the BIG CATS!! lions and tigers, oh my!

on to the invertabraes. apes, gorillas, orang utans...then after a stop at chipotle, it was time to head back home on the subway.

for a little peek-a-boo then bed time

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

the zoo

we made our way to washington DC today for a trip to the national zoo in what turned out to be the hottest, most uncomfortable conditions for a woman nearly 30 weeks along in a pregnancy. my feet hurt, i swear i pulled something in my stomach, and my ham strings ache. BUT caden had an amazing time and kept yelling "zebras" even though we never got to see the damn things. over half the animals weren't even out. we kept telling him he was going to see zebras (his favorite animal by far) and of course, there were none. and to top it all off, all of the gift shops were closed because of an employee appreciation event so i couldn't even get him a stuffed zebra. but i think he had a grand time anyway. we did see lions and tigers, apes, some small mammalish things, monkeys, elephants, hippos and such. i'll post pics tomorrow during his nap time. for now, i'm going to bed.

to cut or not to cut

that is the question. its finally come the time in young caden's life to decide if cutting his hair is the alternative to the brushing battles each night and the uni-dread each day, caused by his car seat.
i'll let the viewing public decide...

this is right after a bath. so it looks longer then it would dry...

and then dry....


too much to do

add this to the list of things i try to get done each day and i simply don't have the time. i think i'm going to have to give up my garden plot because there isn't enough time in the day NOW! what am i going to do with a second baby? i went by yesterday and the whole plot is over grown with weeds. i pulled up all the corn (that had sadly rotted anyway...all my ears were a waste). i pulled up the beans (snap and green), and some of the strawberry plant daughters that had spread. but mostly lots and lots of weeds. not to mention in the fall (in three weeks) starts back school, and i'm still working two jobs, and another baby will soon be here! AHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

but each day this summer has been a blast (almost every day) spending time with my two little men and trying to get as much quality time in as possible before elliot is here.
so some pics from the last couple of days!

at the park with his bestest friend (besides his mother). her name is zelda and she is a little under six months younger then him. but just as big...(hehe)

at the fountain..."mama, whats this?"

WATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


reading books with the fierce sasha...i think caden looks more fierce then the dog!


just being the super cutie that he is...

he makes me swoon....


and in just over two hours we are heading to the zoo in DC for a fun day trip. i'll post pics when we get back!

Saturday, July 21, 2007


“Flipping the Paradigm: Race and Gender in Sojourner Truth’s

‘Ain’t I A Woman’ Speech”

It is important to take into consideration both accounts of the speech by Sojourner Truth at the Women’s Rights Convention in Akron, Ohio. Both possess an insight into the historical experience of our orator as woman, black and slave. While each imbued a different tone, both speak to the condition of women, but more importantly allow us to bring to light the importance of recognizing the woman in the black slave, the position of all women in society and the social hierarchy that dominated the time. In this essay, I want to look first at Truth’s version of the body, as juxtaposed to the dominant paradigm of womanhood. Second, I want to look at the way she is situated within the social hierarchy, as both black and a woman. Lastly, I will take into consideration motives of both authors of the speech and the way they situate Truth into the movement as abolitionist and woman.

In both speeches, there is an emphasis on Truth as having a body. Alison Piepmeier argues in Out in Public: Configurations of Women’s Bodies in Nineteenth-Century America, the deliberateness on Truth’s part to “engage with the women’s rights at the most literal level, the level of the body” (92). In the Bugle version she is quoted as saying:

I have as much muscle as any man, and can do as much work as any man. I have plowed and reaped and husked and chopped and mowed, and can any man do more than that? (Truth 247).

Her emphasis here is to compare herself to men as an advocate of women’s rights. She is equalizing herself as a woman on the terms of ability. To the women present, she was viewed as almost masculine; to the men, she was a competitive force. In this period, when men were so detached from their work through the use of slaves, it is doubtful that many of the men in the audience would be able to rival her in strength. Yet, her experience greatly varied from that of the women in the audience.

It can be argued that her “presence does a great deal to undermine the notion of nineteenth-century women as domesticated beings.” (Piepmeier 93). It is doubtful that most, if not all, the women there were unable to compare themselves to her physically or in terms of labor ability. There was at the time an emphasis on white, middle class woman as mother and wife, serving their purpose in the private sphere of the home. Truth, on the other hand, came from work, and the luxury of being a housewife was unbeknownst to enslaved black women. Her emphasis on body could then in turn serve as a rebuttal to not only the men, but also to the white women who were fighting for the right to something Truth had known and been subjected to all along. Her indirectness calls into question the issue of slavery and the class issue that was facing the country at the time.

In the Gage version of the speech, the emphasis still focuses on body but there is a feminine quality added. This is done both through the addition of “a’rn’t I a woman?” as well as when she brings into the speech her ability to birth: “I have borne thirteen children and seen 'em ‘moss all sold off into slavery…” (Truth 248). Her ability to birth makes her distinctly female in spite of her abilities in strength. Her argument that “a’rn’t I a woman” serves to re-emphasize that womanhood is not as static as it was believed to be in the nineteenth century. This was a much more direct challenge to the women in the audience, compared to the Bugle version of the speech, which seems to be challenging men without bringing up the issue of slavery nearly as boldly.

With the Bugle version, the intent seems to be to lump all slaves together, with no distinction for gender. In this way they were able to divide the issue of abolition and women’s rights to serve the purpose of the Anti-Slavery Bugle. After all, being an abolitionist didn’t necessarily make you a feminist. This could be the main cause of the discrepancy between the two speeches. The Bugle was speaking from the abolitionist cause while Gage was speaking from the feminist side.

Taking this into consideration, one can clearly recognize the motive behind lines quoted in The Bugle, such as:

As for intellect, all I can say is, if woman have a pint, and man a quart—why can’t she have her little pint full? You need not be afraid to give us our rights for fear we will take too much, —for we can’t take more than our pint’ll hold. (Gates 247).

There can be seen a sexist air to these lines, as they imply that women are inferior to men in intellect. On the other hand, Suzanne Pullon Fitch and Roseann Mandziuk argue in Sojourner Truth as Orator: Wit, Story and Song, that Truth was a master of humor and satire in her speeches.

Sojourner Truth used superiority humor to advance black people, women and herself. She placed African Americans above whites, women above men, and herself above learned people(34).

Perhaps, then, what she is doing in this piece is using humor to quell her opponents through incongruity. If one takes into consideration this theory, then we can see that Truth did not seriously consider women to be less intellectual then men, or any less worthy of rights. Instead, she is rebutting with an absurdity that was common myth at the time.

While Gage also situates Truth in the context of either slave or woman, she isn’t as non-racial as The Bugle. Erlene Stetson and Linda David state:

Both Frances Gage and the Bugle reporter wrote that Truth said that the white man was caught between the slave and the white woman; but the Bugle reporter chose a neutral nonracial expression to show the white man’s predicament, “between a hawk and a buzzard,” in preference to the more specific and more threatening position “between the negroes of the South and the women at the north all talking about rights (118).

The purpose this serves for the Bugle seems to be to not nearly as much offend the white male abolitionist constituency that reads their paper. For white men, it doesn’t seem nearly as threatening to be stuck between two inferior groups of people when they are compared to birds. Although both birds of prey, they aren’t of the same species, therefore it isn’t a united front against white men. The lack of nonracial imagery doesn’t evoke the hard reality of slavery in the south and makes the speech that much more palatable for the readers of their paper. Gage on the other hand seems to want to threaten the white male readership with a threat of impending doom by two groups that are coming together to bring their demise. She wants to invoke a sense of fear in men. Neither recognizes the gender division in the group “slave.”

Whether you lean more towards one speech of the other, it seems unarguable that “Sojourner Truth was the stuff of antislavery legend” (Gates 245). Both of her speeches beautifully articulate a need for the rights of all people, regardless of how well they fit into a dominant social definition of what it meant to be woman and human. She was a champion of equalizing people, regardless of race, class, gender or ability. The now famous title of her speech also became the “crux of her challenge as a black woman to racial and sexual stereotypes that few had the foresight to address so courageously” (246).

For this, and so much more, we have her to thank whenever a woman looks at herself compared to the social paradigm and thinks, “ain’t I a woman?”


WORKS CITED


Fitch, Suzanne Pullon and Roseann M. Mandziuk. Sojourner Truth as Orator: Wit, Story
and Song
. Westport: Greenwood Press, 1997.


Truth, Sojourner. "Arn't I A Woman.: Henry Louis Gates Jr. and Nellie Y. McKay, Ed.

The Norton Anthology of African American Literature. 2nd ed. New York: Norton, 2004.

245-249.


Piepmeier, Alison. “As Strong as Any man: Sojourner Truth’s Tall-Tale Embodiment. "
Out In Public: Configurations of Women’s Bodies in Nineteenth-Century
America
. Chapel Hill: University of North Carolina Press, 2004 .92-128.


Stetson Erlene and Linda David. Glorying in Tribulation: The Lifework of Sojourner
Truth
. East Lansing: Michigan State University Press, 1994.

Monday, July 16, 2007

oh no. OH NO

we are in the final stretch of this prengancy. in ten weeks we are full term (at 37 weeks). and we are still in dire need of some things that we simply do not have the money for. we have most of the small things....toys, slings, diapers (sky's mom is getting us a diaper service for the first six months) and so on. BUT we have no clothes. we'll have to reuse caden's which some are pretty "boyish". firetrucks, sports and such. not that I bought these things, but some how they were acquired from other people who insisted on getting these things. but also, even the clothes that aren't boy themes, still look like boys clothes. button up polos and such. but what ever. i can deal with people calling her a boy. no matter what i dressed caden in people called him a girl. that never really bothered me. but the things we really need?


A double stroller for those rare times when i actually have to go out of the house with two kids under two years old....

a place for the baby to sleep. we realized with caden that he never used his crib until he was well over a year. but our bed is too big and too soft for the new baby to sleep in the bed with us. this will allow her to sleep right next to me...still co-sleeping.

and thats it. but those two things are stupid expensive. i better start working more...


Friday, July 13, 2007

flowers...


this has absolutly nothing to do with parenting or feminism...but it does have to do with my front yard. so...its valid.

i planted these wild flowers about two months ago and nothing ever seemed to happen. i saw these had blooms, but they never blossomed. then when i came home from work last night, i noticed they had all opened. by morning, they were all shut again. no idea what they are, but here they are tonight. i think they are mighty beautiful.



and just for fun...me at 27 weeks. and there, it has to do with mothering...so it's double valid.